• peoplebeproblems@midwest.social
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    6 days ago

    It’s ok to feel hurt if you get rejected.

    It’s not ok to go full Joker and hurt other people because you were hurt.

    It’s not that hard right? Like where are guys getting this idea from?

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      5 days ago

      sometimes women are especially mean and insulting when rejecting men…
      i don’t think it’s super common, and it’s a natural response to all of the men trying to be “players”….
      but i think it comes from there, and then deciding all women are exactly the same as the worst experience they’ve ever had with a woman.

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        5 days ago

        I sort of get that. But after what I went through with my ex wife, rejection seems so tiny compared to what a bad relationship can put you through.

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          5 days ago

          a lot of misandry comes from bad relationships too…
          it’s similar to the racist mindset… they have a bad experience with one <whatever perceived race here>, and then all of “them” are bad….