• anomnom@sh.itjust.works
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    6 hours ago

    I know it’s a bit different, but there are cis women out there knowingly dating trans women who’ve likely had sex with men. So common yet, but I think ubiquitous isn’t accurate.

    Actually now that I’m thinking about it I knew a girl who hooked up with her gay guy best friend.

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      2 hours ago

      I wasn’t commenting on this particular double standard anywhere as much as double standards in general; especially those which are almost exclusively one-way and “acceptable” for only women to hold. That a man trying to employ the same attitudes would be pilloried and castigated to the same degree that women would be lauded and supported.