It’s not gross, it’s learning to like actual people rather than photoshopped/ai porn characters.

I dated a guy with a big belly for years, it didn’t start out as a feature I liked but it became something I liked over time, because I liked him.

Now I like the hockey torso and the bear torso, that’s a W and I’ll take it. Do you have any idea how many more chubby guys there are out there?