Why can’t you and your kids have overlapping interests? When you’re raising the kids, it’s normal for them to be curious about the things you enjoy. Kids hobbies and interests end up overlapping or reflecting their parents more often than the other way round.

They can I suppose, but it’s certainly not guaranteed. I’ve seen enough of my friends have kids and the resulting impact to their social life and ability to do what they want to know that it isn’t for me. Yeah it got a little better for most of them when the kids got older and more self sufficient but it was still a massive trade off up til that point and I don’t see it as being worth it for me.