Kinda ironic that the way for minorities to get it better is to make sure poor white men have it better first.

Who said anything about first? If you make things better for minorities by addressing problems that disproportionately harm them, some white men will also see their problems solved. Why not use that as a selling point?

You’d rather solve nothing in case help goes to people you want to punish. You’d much rather con artists flourish and minorities continue to suffer.