• AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net
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    2 days ago

    A friend was telling me earlier about how they met someone at a local BDSM munch who they seem likely to hook up with, but they are being extra mindful about ensuring it’s safe, given that they have far more experience in this domain than their prospective partner; this is the perfect meme to send to them

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      1 day ago

      … a local BDSM munch …

      is there a typo in here? is munch a thing? lol

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        1 day ago

        A munch is just a social. People chat and stuff, kinky things don’t happen, and it is generally discouraged to use the space for cruising. Different munch dress codes vary from “be very normycore inconspicuous” to “be decent”