if you’re not happy with your mare you should inform them. that’s communication. you mention that like a massive ultimatum, but it is the bare minimum. The same way that you should tell all your prospective partners that you will only have sex for children, so they will have sex with you between zero and maybe three times in your life.
Do you tell that to your partners on the first date? Because if you withold that, then it is you who began the relationship cheating with lies. And those are the lies that killed the relationship, not the partner your tricked into dating you or marrying you trying to fulfill unmet needs.
if you are only allowed to eat my cooking, but I never cook, you’ll starve and no one would blame you for getting something to eat for yourself.
Go read about asexuality. you might be one. for many sex and intimacy is a need like food.
I spend a week without it, and I can’t sleep or focus, it’s just a normal biological need. you don’t need it, good for you. but don’t set up arbitrary rules and force them on everyone because you don’t like sex.
Are you loyal though? are you still with your first partner ever? or have you switched at some point? do you still have to be loyal to them?
relationships change, thats normal and natural. why stay with someone because of loyalty? did you swear an oath on your first date?
if you are not happy with your mate, inform them and break up
That’s the monogamous toxicity.
if you’re not happy with your mare you should inform them. that’s communication. you mention that like a massive ultimatum, but it is the bare minimum. The same way that you should tell all your prospective partners that you will only have sex for children, so they will have sex with you between zero and maybe three times in your life.
Do you tell that to your partners on the first date? Because if you withold that, then it is you who began the relationship cheating with lies. And those are the lies that killed the relationship, not the partner your tricked into dating you or marrying you trying to fulfill unmet needs.
if you are only allowed to eat my cooking, but I never cook, you’ll starve and no one would blame you for getting something to eat for yourself.
Sex is not a need like eating food is
And yes I disclose it
Go read about asexuality. you might be one. for many sex and intimacy is a need like food.
I spend a week without it, and I can’t sleep or focus, it’s just a normal biological need. you don’t need it, good for you. but don’t set up arbitrary rules and force them on everyone because you don’t like sex.
thats called addiction
If I cant wake up without 80-proof is alcohol a need like food?
Religious bigot compares healthy human behavior to alcoholism, thinks they have a point.
My only regret is that as a man, no matter who much I get bred, I cant get pregnant for an abortion. I’ll keep trying though.
and you would kill a child just to spite me?
Killing children is more of a Christian thing https://www.npr.org/2025/08/20/nx-s1-5467731/a-mass-grave-an-unwed-mothers-home-and-the-catholic-church-in-ireland
Abortions are just healthcare. you would rid me of basic healthcare access to spite me?
healthy human behavior? cite sources
It is hard to navigate the Internet without finding evidence that people fuck, a lot.