• Rekorse@sh.itjust.works
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    16 hours ago

    If public and private are both out, how does one meet a possible friend or dating partner who’s a girl?

    • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world
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      11 hours ago

      I wish I had an immediate solution.

      Realistically, our dating sites should be publicly ran so people can meet the way they have shown they prefer, which is online.

      The dating site algos were actually pretty good at helping people find partners until too much money got involved.

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      15 hours ago

      Approach a woman who does want to be approached at the time she wants to be approached without communicating any of that information. Ez. /s

      In seriousness, consider class time as ‘work.’ Don’t bother women at work. Now if you’re in the back of the class and she’s browsing Amazon, maybe she’s not working as much but don’t be creepy and say “I see you’re shopping, talk to me instead,” because, ew, but at least you know next time you’re getting situated you can say “Hey, stupid question, blah blah blah” and test the waters.

      Or, just generally treat women like people. That one always works.