potoooooooo 🥔@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 day agoMight explain some of my dating misstepslemmy.worldimagemessage-square30linkfedilinkarrow-up1518arrow-down14file-text
arrow-up1514arrow-down1imageMight explain some of my dating misstepslemmy.worldpotoooooooo 🥔@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 day agomessage-square30linkfedilinkfile-text
minus-squarepeopleproblems@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up29·1 day agoMy rule is: if you’re gonna trauma dump, let me do it too. Because then we start off with a good commiseration and we get to see how traumatized we are and if that trauma will prevent or enable chemistry.
minus-squareZC3rr0r@piefed.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up14·1 day agoThere’s nothing like honesty as a foundation of a relationship. Also, getting both of your baggage out there is a good way to figure out if you’re compatible.
minus-squareBloodMuffin@lemmy.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·20 hours agothat’s fair, just wait your turn. no interrupting my t-dump with how it relates to your life
My rule is: if you’re gonna trauma dump, let me do it too.
Because then we start off with a good commiseration and we get to see how traumatized we are and if that trauma will prevent or enable chemistry.
There’s nothing like honesty as a foundation of a relationship. Also, getting both of your baggage out there is a good way to figure out if you’re compatible.
that’s fair, just wait your turn. no interrupting my t-dump with how it relates to your life