• whoisearth@lemmy.ca
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    1 day ago

    But if they have a hidden dick they somehow know? I stand by it’s weird.

    I could show them many girls that are gorgeous but they’re ladyboys. Based on their logic they would be attracted and the penis shouldn’t matter but then they say sex matters so how do they know that person has a hidden dick?

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      1 day ago

      I mean, if someone is attractive, then they are attractive? I don’t just want to bang every attractive girl out there!

      Maybe it’s different for people who go for flings, but I like to be friends with someone before anything goes to the bedroom - specifically friends enough that bedroom chat and what we’re both looking for isn’t an awkward topic.

      If it turns out they have a dick, then I’ve still got a good friend? IDK.

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        24 hours ago

        To get to the bedroom means sexual attraction though? Does anyone get to the bedroom without the intention to fuck?

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          22 hours ago

          And if they have a fully fem voice, and it’s a hidden aspect that you won’t find out until you TALK ABOUT IT then… I don’t get your point.

          Just because you find out someone has a cock and balls doesn’t mean you still need to bend them over, lmao. On top of that, do you think getting to that point and stopping somehow gives you “the gay?”

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            21 hours ago

            Read the original post we are both replying to. Person was saying they’re only attracted to women. I think we are both arguing the same thing it’s fucking weird. Many “women” are actually men. The point is the person isnt going to know. They’re saying it doesn’t matter and yet the mythical idea of a vagina is what they look for. What if they look like John Cena but they have a vagina? Would they be attracted to them because they have the lady parts? It’s weird they are forcing an absolutism on that.

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              8 hours ago

              I mean… There’s a difference between man, male, woman, and female.

              John Cena with a vagina would clearly look like a man, that they wouldn’t be attracted to, because that’s a man. Maybe a female man, but a man.

              Just note that they never said male or female, and they mentioned attractiveness, not desire to fuck.