• gibmiser@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Yeah ok buddy, whatever narrative helps you feel better about getting your dick wet while you help someone hurt the person they supposedly care about.

    If they need out help them get out instead of selfishly giving them an escape that doesn’t actually help them escape and actually makes things worse. You aren’t breaking the chains, you are helping her keep them on by letting her out to play in the fenced backyard before you crate her again.

    Stop pretending to be noble and at least admit its selfish. Its not like its new, cheating has been around for as long as monogamy.

    I am married, monogamous but would be into poly stuff if my partner was. But she isn’t and im not going to force that on her. Its called consent, you should try it.

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      23 hours ago

      whatever narrative helps you feel better about getting your dick wet while you help someone hurt the person they supposedly care about.

      A matter between them that has nothing to do with me or anyone else.

      Stop pretending to be noble and at least admit its selfish. Its not like its new, cheating has been around for as long as monogamy.

      Stop pretending it’s a moral question and just admit you’re insecure and convinced your partner would leave you for a better deal if they could find one.

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            2 days ago

            Grow up and think 2 steps past the initial consequences of your actions. I just had another fucking surgery today, im stuck in bed for 3 months, and right now I have nothing better to do. So soon as you want to stop you go ahead.

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              23 hours ago

              Grow up

              Hilarious advice coming from someone defending a “morality” invented by bronze age goat herders as a way to raise the price they could get for selling their teenaged daughters to their middle aged neighbors.

              The entire concept of monogamy is based on the idea that women are property to be defended. There is no good version of that, it’s patriarchy all the way down.

              So soon as you want to stop you go ahead.

              Same, you moralistic prig.