I’d say ‘no’, if you think it’s fine to call it ‘fucking’, you’re definitely not a virgin anymore. It’s always subjective, though, some people think it’s only ‘sex’ if it’s p and v with at least one orgasm. Feels fucked up to validate the kinds of people who think ‘soaking’ makes sense in any way, but when you start considering lesbians, the subjectiveness becomes quite apparent.
physical activity between two people in which they touch each other’s sexual organs, and which may include sexual intercourse
It’s not complicated, whether you’re doing manual stimulation, oral stimulation, or penetration, it’s all sex. Any other definition is trying to justify some behavior you feel would be inappropriate if labeled as “sex.”
I’d say ‘no’, if you think it’s fine to call it ‘fucking’, you’re definitely not a virgin anymore. It’s always subjective, though, some people think it’s only ‘sex’ if it’s p and v with at least one orgasm. Feels fucked up to validate the kinds of people who think ‘soaking’ makes sense in any way, but when you start considering lesbians, the subjectiveness becomes quite apparent.
From Oxford:
It’s not complicated, whether you’re doing manual stimulation, oral stimulation, or penetration, it’s all sex. Any other definition is trying to justify some behavior you feel would be inappropriate if labeled as “sex.”
Oh, that’s great to hear because I think it’s fine to say that I’ve fucked up more than once in my life. So I’m no longer a virgin 🙌