Maybe got drunk and forgot. Imagine not being a virgin but believing you are

be in uni

be functional alcoholic

forget losing virginity

have child support payments

Tbh I’d be concerned if he was raped while drunk or unconscious. It is, unfortunately, not so rare. If so, then as far as she’s concerned that’s ‘sex together’. A lot of women perpetrators do not consider themselves rapists because it’s ‘non-violent’ or they believe theyre doing the man a favour.