I have no issues acknowledging a conventionally attractive guy, I do however seem to have absolutely no notion of what this actually looks like. I know by dint of existing in the 21st century that Brad Pitt, George Clooney etc are considered attractive, but for the life of me I couldn’t take that knowledge and apply it to someone else. I can spot an egregiously “unattractive” dude, but there’s a very broad spectrum of men that just look like “blokes” to me.

If we remove all context from the sentence, sure it could read that way. Do you regularly remove all context before reading? It’s certainly a strange way to word that question if that’s the intent.

And it’s perfectly possible to ask that question without coming across like an ass.

I feel like this is a debate that doesn’t exist - 4 spaces bound to tab is the only actual answer.