If it wasn’t clear, I wasn’t saying he’s the most horrible person in the world but rather that his issue is most likely linked to the way he sees women.

I also could’ve sworn I made a point about it being a societal issue rather than just that individual’s

Cool! I didn’t know I was getting good numbers. That’s how I read the thing but you’re welcome to disagree, I certainly don’t read “convinced a woman to touch him gently” as someone recognizing the woman is a person who might’ve chosen to do so without convincing the same way she chose to rub his shoulders too.

There wasn’t, that’s what it sounded like to me, you’re welcome to disagree, angrily if you feel like it.

I feel like the idea that women are otherworldly creatures instead of people and seeing someone being nice to their partner as “the man having tamed a female and convinced her to treat him well” has a lot to do with his problem.

I hate how much that is preserved socially, there’s no good reason why that hasn’t gone away at least a decade or two ago.