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No, but you’re a hypocrite.

IME of having dated mostly progressive women… they are the ones perpetuating it the most while shouting in public that they aren’t doing that. Or that they can’t be biased because they are women and therefore nothing they think is wrong… only men can be homophobic in their minds.

yeah, it’s super weird how desperate people are to rationalize this nonsense.

like… being turned off by someone’s race. it’s just your phobia/racism. it’s not a ‘preference’ like people like to claim. esp if your ‘turned off’ feelings are a product or assumption about that person’s sexuality/race being a crude stereotype or entrenched in outdated nonsense. neither of those things is a choice either.

it’s the idea that they are disgusted/turn off by. it’s not a part of sexuality at all, it’s that they associate negative traits with a certain sexuality. that’s messed up. and it’s also not really rejecting the person, it’s rejecting the category.

IME this is incredibly common.

I had a bi girlfriend who was also super uncomfortable with the idea of me being with another man.

It’s also that gay sex is gross, and lesbian sex is ‘hot’.

The policing around male sexuality is far more intense than it is around female sexuality. Also applies to sexual assault and statutory rape. a lady does it, NBD, if a guy does it, it’s a heinous act.

Further, how many people agonize about female pedophiles vs male pedophiles?

bisexual women are hot

bisexual men are gross.

that’s the underlying assumption.

homosexuality is considered positive/attractive among women, and normalized. a woman doesn’t become less woman for being with a woman.

however, works the opposite for a guy. homosexuality makes a man less manly, or something.

fwiw the ‘queer’ women in my life have been the most judgemental of my sexuality. i guess if you agonize about your own sexuality all the time you project that onto other folks though.

I’ll make sure that next time a loved one dies I’m not in public!! Just because some dude finds it uncomfortable to see other people be sad or upset. I’ll call my mom now, let her know she can only die when I’m at home in private.

how does she feel about her ass being penetrated her or penetrating a guy’s ass?