• yermaw@sh.itjust.works
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    1 day ago

    I feel a little bad for it, but like Im also looking at billboards, shop windows, my own reflection in cars, cats running across the road, cool looking bikes going past, odd shaped dog turds, the writing on the back of the guys shirt in front of me.

    I dont have the mental fortitude to keep my eyes locked at exactly 12 o clock all the time I’m existing.

    I kinda resent being made to feel bad for it.

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      Look, people showing cleavage are aware it’s going to draw attention. In the same way women know if they put words on their tits you’re going to read them. There’s a difference between noticing something and staring right at it

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      Don’t feel bad about it. Just don’t sit there slack-jawed and staring. Anyone who tries to make you feel bad about it is just too chronically online for their own good.