A wife massage with no funny business may often turn into a yes funny business massage, but only if the no funny business part goes well. And even then not always. But it’s always a good idea to take the no funny business part seriously. The worst possible outcome is that she just has a better day instead.
I knew a woman that would declare, early on in a relationship, that she didn’t want any funny business ever but would very much want funny business a month later. I always assumed it was to filter out people that were only after funny business, or to gauge how their partner respects consent. Granted its not the same dynamic as in the OOP.
A wife massage with no funny business may often turn into a yes funny business massage, but only if the no funny business part goes well. And even then not always. But it’s always a good idea to take the no funny business part seriously. The worst possible outcome is that she just has a better day instead.
Agreed. As an equally confused human as this OP, I think it’s about choice, luck, trust and possibly solar flares.
I too blunder through this world pretending I have an understanding of my wife of 20+ years and just opt to get excited when the light turns green.
I knew a woman that would declare, early on in a relationship, that she didn’t want any funny business ever but would very much want funny business a month later. I always assumed it was to filter out people that were only after funny business, or to gauge how their partner respects consent. Granted its not the same dynamic as in the OOP.