I can’t imagine large ones are anything but annoying. However, a family one or a couple friends works out pretty well.

I happen to be in a couple of both of those so I’m a little biased. The family one is good for planning and sharing pictures from time to time. The friend one is good for sending memes and shit.

Edit: even then, if one of those starts going off and has nothing to do with me, I’ll mute notifications for an hour or so.