Maybe they want to be the competent one, but I can also see the appeal in someone who is comfortable with who they are and happy to try things they aren’t good at.
Personally I find competence in something hot, I love when guys are good at doing something. But nobody is good at everything and willingness to step out of your comfort zone is also hot.
Honestly that’s how I always thought successful relationships were supposed to be.
Just 2 incompetent and imperfect people choosing to stumble through life together because you compliment the other’s incompetencies, and it makes stumbling through life just a little easier and more enjoyable.
Maybe they want to be the competent one, but I can also see the appeal in someone who is comfortable with who they are and happy to try things they aren’t good at.
Personally I find competence in something hot, I love when guys are good at doing something. But nobody is good at everything and willingness to step out of your comfort zone is also hot.
They wish to be incompetent together.
Also you’ve just described "If they can’t be handsome. They should at least find you handy. " Which is advice passed down for generations
Honestly that’s how I always thought successful relationships were supposed to be.
Just 2 incompetent and imperfect people choosing to stumble through life together because you compliment the other’s incompetencies, and it makes stumbling through life just a little easier and more enjoyable.