• Fart Armpit@lemmy.world
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    10 hours ago

    Too much absolutes. Not enough data for complete analysis. Won’t discuss expression. There are many different expressions, with most of them being controversial. Even from the same authors. Many variables in your life case fit only your exact situation. Your family members are also human beings. Their views are subject of change. From your own words your father isn’t that bad. If others deserved a complete ending of any relations, does he? Just because he’s part of that currently toxic relationships family?

    Now people have a really different life experiences. It’s good if you’re very selective on people and your friends are truly that reliable. Some people have good families and their family members are also good or best friends to them at the same time. The only thing that really matters here is core difference between how relationships function: love of mother/father is completely different from love of wife/husband. Many people are missing this fact. Not much people in our lives are really capable physically, mentally and financially of holding us up in different situations, force majors.

    Friends are also people. They can become corrupted, change into being bad. They can become too busy with their own life problems to have a time to really care about your problems. Family you create is also a different thing. Usually not equals to family you came from at all. You can create it to be also responsible for you, but it’s never intended to be like this. Children detach and start their own families. One of the most shitty fact about families: family members also die. Met one grown ass dude a while ago. He had everything: his own family, good friends, nice job, and generally all percs of such life… Wife and daughter died from cancer. Rest of his children are somewhere else living their own lives. Besties? Too busy. Who took care of him? Government? Lmfao, governments are mostly disabled. Rehabs only made him even more drug addict. And who? Who took care of such a useless, absolutely wasted member of society. His only fate according to modern social morals is to die on cold street as some junkie crap no one needs and everyone forgot. Oh, his mother took care of him nevertheless. Family may be a fallback in emergency life situations.

    However, there are plenty of other cases, when family more ruins people’s lives, than sustains. Some grown ass dude i also met some time ago have a mother who hated his wife for whatever reason and wished to his son to die. Some parents fucking kill their children. Some children fucking kill their parents.

    How i see this situation: it’s complicated, but feels too odd, rather artificial. Totally stimulated by intelligence by various daily psyops. They are interested in dissolution and division in the first place. Surely, in such a wonderful condition, family as phenomenon undergoes many negative changes, degradation. You’ve confirmed political views are playing a major role in process of your alienation from your family.

    Not trying to get ahead of us all, and let’s, of course, see how it goes. But i have a bad feeling, that if it’ll continue down this path, we all gonna die sad and lonely, completely isolated in personal grey wall boxes.

    Well, fuck. Bad words. Wishing y’all a great day tho. Here’s a pic to laugh at.