I don’t cringe at my past self, because I understand that I was working with the tools I had at the time, but I definitely don’t endorse my past actions or look at pictures of myself and think I look good.
I do think I look better than I realized at the time, but I did not know anything about dressing myself after 7 years of uniforms and I had no idea how to communicate with hairdressers. I still can’t get a good haircut, but that’s beside the point.
Trust me it’ll just keep happening, learn to be kind to your past self.
For me it stopped happening. Then I started seeing my past self as better. That’ s how I realised I peaked.
Put in other way - if you look back at yourself and see a dumbass, savour it. It means you are improving.
I don’t cringe at my past self, because I understand that I was working with the tools I had at the time, but I definitely don’t endorse my past actions or look at pictures of myself and think I look good.
I do think I look better than I realized at the time, but I did not know anything about dressing myself after 7 years of uniforms and I had no idea how to communicate with hairdressers. I still can’t get a good haircut, but that’s beside the point.
But he’s a dick.
He didn’t have a choice - there was already a Tom & a Harry.
Man, fuck that guy.