• Johanno@feddit.org
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    10 hours ago

    Can’t give your wife any chance on reading texts of you hitting on other women.

    • Echo Dot@feddit.uk
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      9 hours ago

      Notthst I’m cheating with other women (seriously who can be bothered) my phone is locked with my fingerprint. As much as we share a lot in life I have not given her copies of my fingerprints so she couldn’t unlock the phone anyway. In theory she knows the passcode but since she asks me for it every single time she needs to use my phone I’m recently confident she doesn’t retain it.

      • cardfire@sh.itjust.works
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        5 hours ago

        My last partner and I had fingerprints on each other’s devices just for convenience sake, mostly so that we can text on each other’s behalf while the other was driving or in case of an emergency situation.

        I would argue doing this right takes way more Trust than just keeping the boundaries up , and that I wouldn’t prescribe it for most couples.