my GF sucked me off this morning. Am I the real ‘alpha’?
I think according to the Romans your girlfriend would be the alpha? If I’m remembering correctly I think it was looked down upon to be receiving sexual favors, but not giving sexual favors? So I vote your girlfriend is the alpha.
Well that’s prob for the best. Alternatively if we’re being thematic, I think you have to find another person to suck off if you really wanted the title of alpha. And as we already established, the boys are not doing well, so it would probably be a hassle.
Thats definitely not how the Romans saw it though. And it’s not the way it works in modern society usually either. Giving a blowjob is almost always a submissive act. Roman poets also used to basically have rap battles or diss poems with eachother, and one of the most famous ones starts with the line “I will face-fuck and sodomize you”. Fucking someone in the mouth was considered a dominant act, and there were a lot of power dynamics in their society that would have made it a really bad idea for anyone on the receiving end to ‘chomp down’ in most cases.
I don’t personally, but I have definitely met some champions in my time, and I wouldn’t mind meeting up with some of them again. Personally I don’t care how you label it, a great blowjob is a great blowjob. I’m just saying how most people would view it. Especially the Romans.
Nope. Actually the reverse, the fucked one is gay. Not the one who does the fucking. Conversely, making someone “submit” to pleasing you sexually, is manly. Doing that for someone else, isnt.
But i see you already went with your more imaginative version in the other comments 🫠
Idk, I think it boils down to one question. Do you give a blowjob, or do you receive one? Hard to be domineering when your privates are at the mercy of someone else’s teeth.
I think according to the Romans your girlfriend would be the alpha? If I’m remembering correctly I think it was looked down upon to be receiving sexual favors, but not giving sexual favors? So I vote your girlfriend is the alpha.
Hm… Alright, I think I can live with that.
Well that’s prob for the best. Alternatively if we’re being thematic, I think you have to find another person to suck off if you really wanted the title of alpha. And as we already established, the boys are not doing well, so it would probably be a hassle.
Pretty sure it was the other way around. It also wasn’t gay if you topped.
Depends on who you think is in charge of a blowjob. I for one think it’s the one who has the ability to chomp down on your sensitive bits.
Thats definitely not how the Romans saw it though. And it’s not the way it works in modern society usually either. Giving a blowjob is almost always a submissive act. Roman poets also used to basically have rap battles or diss poems with eachother, and one of the most famous ones starts with the line “I will face-fuck and sodomize you”. Fucking someone in the mouth was considered a dominant act, and there were a lot of power dynamics in their society that would have made it a really bad idea for anyone on the receiving end to ‘chomp down’ in most cases.
Maybe if you don’t have the heart of a champion.
I don’t personally, but I have definitely met some champions in my time, and I wouldn’t mind meeting up with some of them again. Personally I don’t care how you label it, a great blowjob is a great blowjob. I’m just saying how most people would view it. Especially the Romans.
Nope. Actually the reverse, the fucked one is gay. Not the one who does the fucking. Conversely, making someone “submit” to pleasing you sexually, is manly. Doing that for someone else, isnt.
But i see you already went with your more imaginative version in the other comments 🫠
Idk, I think it boils down to one question. Do you give a blowjob, or do you receive one? Hard to be domineering when your privates are at the mercy of someone else’s teeth.