Being coerced into capitulating to the demands of another out of a manipulative and abusive social obligation is not the same as consent. Fuck that unhealthy, toxic nonsense.
Respect the boundaries of others. Period.
No, if your relationship demands you sacrifice your boundaries, that is an unhealthy relationship. Partners should respect your boundaries, not ask you to sacrifice them for their comfort. Fuck that.
I never said you should breach your boundaries. But, if your partner wants chocolate cake and you don’t, but it isn’t much of a hassle then you can make your partner some chocolate cake. It’s just going out of your way to do something for someone else.
Grabbing someone a chocolate cake is not the same as sacrificing your bodily autonomy to let them fuck you when you are not in the mood for sex. How fucking disingenuous
Being coerced into capitulating to the demands of another out of a manipulative and abusive social obligation is not the same as consent. Fuck that unhealthy, toxic nonsense.
Respect the boundaries of others. Period.
No, if your relationship demands you sacrifice your boundaries, that is an unhealthy relationship. Partners should respect your boundaries, not ask you to sacrifice them for their comfort. Fuck that.
I never said you should breach your boundaries. But, if your partner wants chocolate cake and you don’t, but it isn’t much of a hassle then you can make your partner some chocolate cake. It’s just going out of your way to do something for someone else.
Grabbing someone a chocolate cake is not the same as sacrificing your bodily autonomy to let them fuck you when you are not in the mood for sex. How fucking disingenuous