• Dozzi92@lemmy.world
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    16 days ago

    You might like New Jersey to then. “How you doing” is about the extent of it. I can see people I know while out for a run, walk, grocery, whatever, and you’re only getting a how you doing unless there’s something important we need to discuss. Neighbors, you get a smile and a wave. I’m not striking up a conversation just to strike up a conversation, and that’s how most of us are.

    At the same time, we can plan to get together and then do get-together stuff, including those meaningless or meaningful conversations.

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      16 days ago

      I hope you don’t get me wrong. Ten years ago I might have thought about that. But in the meantime, the USA have removed themselves from the list of countries I want to visit for the foreseeable future and probably beyond. And even 10 years ago, I wasn’t really eager to visit.

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        16 days ago

        I understand why you’re saying it. There isn’t really a place that’s representative of the US as a whole, and NJ certainly doesn’t represent the qualities that you’re presumably trying to avoid. But the internet paints this picture that definitely looks bleak, so I can appreciate your sentiment.

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          16 days ago

          It’s not that I fear for myself. I am aware that I, as a white German dude, will probably be fine in the US. It’s more of a statement I want to express. You, the US of A, won’t see a cent from me as long as I can prevent it. I’ve cancelled my subscriptions. If it’s made in the USA it’s not made for me, etc. And I’m making sure my government knows what I think about playing nice with the beast.

          I know there are great people in the USA and I’m sure you are one of them. But your country turned to shit.

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            Hey, you won’t find me disagreeing. I try to stay local, small businesses, all of that. It has been a disappointing decade for sure, but I’m not going to lose hope.