• farmgineer@nord.pub
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    2 days ago

    In Japan, if you use a word wrong, people will almost certainly not tell you so as not to embarrass you unless your mistake is sufficiently more embarrassing or insulting.

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      Ya, I thought they told you that your Japanese sucked by saying “your japanese is really good.” And it’s only when they stop commenting on the quality of your Japanese that you know you are near native levels. Even then, if you don’t look ethnically Japanese they still might keep saying it, so there’s really no way of knowing.

      • TheEmpireStrikesDak@thelemmy.club
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        What? Noooo, so this is how I find out!

        I studied Japanese for about 11 years. I used to work in the west end, so I’d have Japanese tourists to practise on. They’d always be like, aaah, sugeeee! And tell me how good my Japanese was. I started speaking in Kansai ben just to throw them off and it always made them laugh. But tbh my Japanese was crap, I just thought I was doing a good enough job bluffing. As soon as they started talking in Japanese, I’d have to say kiku koto ikkomo dekehen waaaaaa 😅

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          22 hours ago

          I studied Japanese for like 6 months before I went and they were GUSHING at me spitting out me 15 phrases and trying to understand their words. if you’re japanese and reading this now ILY so much and thank you for making that trip the best of my life.

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      My grandmother liked to tell the story of when she visited in Japan in the 60s and greeted a bunch of people by saying “Idaho.”