• confusedpuppy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    I’ve thought about this question for over 10 years and I’ve had many answers. The most consistent answer throughout the years has been simply listening

    I’m a quiet person and people generally notice that I’m a good listener. This somehow makes me the unexpected therapist. People just tell me what’s truly in their hearts and on their minds. Sometimes they don’t even notice they are saying what they are saying and it catches themselves off guard. They talk, I listen. What people don’t realize is that I remember too…

    I’ve heard so many stories. Rejection, manipulation, poverty, hate, sexual violence, war and the list goes on

    The gift of making people feel heard and the curse of remembering all their stories