I’m nonbinary, no it’s not erasure. We do not owe anyone androgyny. If you saw me on the street your first thought would be that I’m a cis man. Am I suddenly not a valid enby because I’m 6’2" built like a fridge cosplaying Bigfoot, and have zero idea what I would even want out of transition? That makes my identity less valid and somehow “erasure” in fact?
I’m nonbinary, no it’s not erasure. We do not owe anyone androgyny. If you saw me on the street your first thought would be that I’m a cis man. Am I suddenly not a valid enby because I’m 6’2" built like a fridge cosplaying Bigfoot, and have zero idea what I would even want out of transition? That makes my identity less valid and somehow “erasure” in fact?