• Owl@mander.xyz
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    9 hours ago

    We really need to bring back the rules of the early Internet

    • There are no girls online (i.e. people are not who they claim to be)

    Nah, I think some things should be left in the past

    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      9 hours ago

      Just replace it with “on the internet everyone is lying about who they are and the person goading you on is either 15 or a fed”

    • SaltSong@startrek.website
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      7 hours ago

      Add I understand it, the real meaning of that line is not exactly what it sounds like. It meant something like “in this anonymous place, only your thoughts matter, not your identity.” If an idea was good, it was good, and it didn’t matter who had the idea. Very egalitarian.

      Of course, we have since realized that isn’t really true. Sometimes it’s important to know if a thought is coming from a woman, who has had different experience from a man.

      Still an idea that need to be left behind, but not the one you probably think.

      • merc@sh.itjust.works
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        2 hours ago

        Add I understand it, the real meaning of that line is not exactly what it sounds like

        As someone who was around at the time, I think people meant it exactly as said. Partially it was an observation that most online spaces were really male-dominated. Partially it was a “no girlz allowd” sign. A lot of places were extremely hostile to women. The best that someone who admitted to being a girl or woman could hope for is a flood of messages from horny boys. That also made it a self-fulfilling prophecy. Girls would either stay away, or they’d pretend to be male just to avoid the drama.