• Snot Flickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 months ago

      Fair question, I also want to top, but I’ve also run across women so beautiful that I’d turn to bottoming just to be with them.

      Edit: to be clear I am really just lonely and desperate more than anything

      • Banana@sh.itjust.works
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        2 months ago

        Bottoming doesn’t require anal, btw. There are many, many ways to be submissive.

        • Snot Flickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          2 months ago

          Oh i think we’re talking two different bottoms here, I am not speaking dom/sub bottom. I don’t really dig the dynamic, I’m a cuddler who likes to make people feel good, more of a hedonist than anything.

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            2 months ago

            That makes sense, I’m a woman so most of the bottoming im familiar with is dom/sub, sorry! Hahaha

          • cloudskater@piefed.blahaj.zone
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            2 months ago

            Same, tho I don’t think of the typical stuff when the topic of dom and sub come up. That is making ppl feel good as far as I’m concerned, its why as much of a bottom as I am, I like to top as well. I wanna make ppl feel good :3