Don’t worry, she loves it :3

        • scoobford@piefed.blahaj.zone
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          19 days ago

          Safety equipment is always the most important part!

          You only need safety shears for rope though, if you aren’t doing rope play don’t worry about it.

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          18 days ago

          General tip: almost all kinky stuff can be sourced from non-kinky stores, at non-kinky prices. Get your ropes and chains from a hardware store, get your safety shears from some online first aid supply store… As an added bonus, it will be much better quality than the general sex shop trash.

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            18 days ago

            Disclaimer: Not at all my area of expertise.

            Isn’t the stuff explicitly designed for kink generally safer and more comfortable? I was under the impression that using just any old rope would lead to some unpleasant friction burns.

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              18 days ago

              If it actually is, maybe, but average sex shop stuff is just run-off-the-mill product with a kinky sticker on it. Depending on material it may be conditioned, but that’s still cheaper to do on your own and also makes it a more personal tool, which I like.

              Friction burns come more from bad rope handling than bad quality / material. It’s not supposed to rub over skin continuously (but can be used consciously for the sensation, of course).