Which is why it’s a shame to see you fight each other as if that isn’t the case.
I would wholeheartedly recommend reading How To Win Friends And Influence People (or at least this summary). Especially if you’re trying to convince people to vote in the midterms.
Crazy thought, but as we descend into fascism maybe we should simply vote in the manner most likely to remove those fascists and stop the descent instead of voting for candidates that literally cannot win to try to prove some kind of point.