Which is why it’s a shame to see you fight each other as if that isn’t the case.
I would wholeheartedly recommend reading How To Win Friends And Influence People (or at least this summary). Especially if you’re trying to convince people to vote in the midterms.
I never thought my stance of “we should vote and also try to organize long term change, local support, and maybe even a socialist revolution as treat” would be meet with such vitriol. And not about the second part, just daring to suggest people also vote, like, at all.