Which is why it’s a shame to see you fight each other as if that isn’t the case.
I would wholeheartedly recommend reading How To Win Friends And Influence People (or at least this summary). Especially if you’re trying to convince people to vote in the midterms.
You’re right, it can’t be worse than the Republicans. But who are the Democrats going to be better for? Because they keep standing up and saying it won’t be better for everyone, and that doesn’t sound like a winning message to me.