• ameancow@lemmy.world
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    3 hours ago

    Please stop being doomer about your future. This is the most common and dumb cliche delusion that people under 30 get stuck in.

    Every single on of you “I don’t plan on living that long” angst-turds out there are exactly the same as the evangelical christians who are planning for the rapture.

    You will in fact live to 65 and you better fucking do something about it and make your plans now. Make realistic plans too, open a savings account with high yield, work on your education, get smarter, become social and emotionally intelligent, get therapy, fix your body and mind. These are your goals, not these fantasies I always see about either dying young or getting rich.

    We need people who care about the world and community to make it better for the rest of us, if we work together it won’t be so miserable that you want to run away like a fucking coward.

    edit: the rage that this seemed to spark in some of you actually is great, I love it. Please examine where that feeling is coming from and ask yourself why the message “You will live a long time and need to consider it” makes you so uncomfortable. What are you neglecting now that you KNOW inside is going to bite you in the ass later? Not exercising? Not finishing school? Not taking care of your teeth? GET THE FUCK OUT OF BED AND GO BRUSH AND FLOSS.

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        3 hours ago

        No, you’re free to go rot if you want. I give you that permission to just go be miserable and waste life. Save nothing. Live for the moment.

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            2 hours ago

            You’re not making any kind of argument to back up your obtuse whinging, you’re just making noise.

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              2 hours ago

              You’re the one who made the bs claims first. I have no obligation to prove anything to you as I’m not trying to claim anything. I’m simply disagreeing with your BS claims which you’ve yet to prove as legitimate. All you have done is spout myopic opinions clearly jaded by a place of privilege.

              You’re just another fucking idiot who has no understanding of systemic reality and are placing blame on individuals for things far beyond their immediate control. Just more “well if I was able to do it then anyone can do it” nonsense that has been spouted by privileged fuckwits for decades.

              So, again, get fucking bent you privileged, myopic douchebag.

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                I said, in essence, “save money and plan for tomorrow, you will regret thinking that you won’t live past a certain age.” I am literally laughing my ass off that this triggered you so hard. Do you have a job? put some money away. Do you have friends? go get some. Do you exercise? You should.

                Calling any of that “privileged” is painting a picture of what kind of person rages at that message and it’s not flattering and I am truly amused.

                edit: i know you’re going to reread all of this so I guess it’s worth letting you know i’m over it and blocked you.

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                  Wow you are just fucking stupid.

                  “Just save money bro, hur dur, obviously everyone is able to make past the financial threshold that is the cost of living to be able to put money back. Just have friends, cause obviously everyone lives in a community that is welcoming and inclusive to all individuals regardless of color or creed while also having the time and ability and access to infrastructure or opportunities to socialize. Hur dur. Just exercise bro, cause everyone has good access to healthcare and absolutely don’t suffer from lack of access to medical services that they need to help them overcome the mental and physical conditions that prevent them from living a healthy lifestyle. C’mon guys, it was so easy for me to do it and I was successful. So obviously that means everyone is able to do it regardless of their material or socioeconomic conditions! If you can’t you’re just a moral failure who isn’t trying hard enough.”

                  You are just monumentally stupid and myopic. That’s all there is to it. Just a rehashing of a tired old argument that is only ever spoken from a self-centered, myopic place of privilege.

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        4 hours ago

        Surplus of cash? Holy shit I’m not saying put your 20,000 dollar trust fund in the stock market, I’m saying put aside a 100 bucks a month if you can swing it, even if it’s hard. Christ I feel for young people if nobody ever taught you how any of this works.

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          Yeah, you save $100 this month, then maybe the next, then your car breaks down, or you have to go to the doctor or whatever the fuck expensive thing that comes up and you’re wiped out again. Not that $1200 a year is going to do jack shit for you anyway as far as retirement goes anyway.

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            2 hours ago

            I am glad you agree with me that you need to save money for potential expenses and future problems.

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              With that amount you’re not saving enough to do anything beyond short term emergencies and a lot of people are lucky to even get that far. It doesn’t secure you any kind of future after you’re too old/sick to work anymore.

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                2 hours ago

                It’s funny because I never even said “retirement” I just said to plan for your future and stop being nihilistic and thinking “I’m going to die before I’m 40 anyway.”

                A lot of people feeling really unhappy at the entire message and that’s really telling about people’s anxiety right now.

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                  1 hour ago

                  You will in fact live to 65 and you better fucking do something about it and make your plans now.

                  Wtf else would you have been talking about? People are unhappy because your fucking stupid message ignores a shitload of reality. Not everyone has an income that even meets their cost of living, let alone save or plan anything for the future and you come on here calling them turds and lecture them about feeling hopless? Fuck you.

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                    Yah I stand by it 100%, if you can’t muster the will to even TRY for a future, you’re a worthless turd and I don’t want your poison infecting others who are willing to keep fighting, I want people who care about the future so we can rebuild some measure of community and a better future. You don’t want to have those kinds of values, and a lot of sheltered, asocial hermits in this post feel the same, so yah… I really hope you have the future you seem to want. I’m done, don’t worry I won’t reply or see any more of this.

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      12 hours ago

      open a savings account

      It’s one thing to have an account. It’s another thing to be able to put money in it. I’m lucky if I don’t have to take money out of my savings all month. About half my clothes have holes in them, and I keep thinking, “Maybe next paycheck I can go shopping.” But by the time next paycheck comes, it pretty much all goes to rent, food, fuel, or whatever else is more dire than new clothes.

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        4 hours ago

        I’m privileged enough to have all of very cheap housing, a paid off car and a well paying job, and I still don’t contribute enough to my RRSP.

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        12 hours ago

        I’m in the same boat but I still find ways to do it, way too late in life, because as I said above, you need to take your years-away future as seriously as what you’re going to eat tomorrow. It’s going to get harder and harder to keep the grind going and you will absolutely need some measure of savings in the future. As long as you’re making any money at all, even a few dollars here and there will help towards a better tomorrow.

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        9 hours ago

        In case you aren’t already, you should try shopping at Goodwill or another local thrift store. I get most of my clothes from there. Last time I took my daughter because she has strong fashion opinions.

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      You don’t know that. We aren’t doing jack about climate change. In fact, we are actively trying to make it worse.

      If you don’t think thats a problem, then you’ve got your head in the sand.

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        12 hours ago

        Plus, the whole thing is about putting your money in some place where it will passively gain value, so that when you retire you will have compounded wealth. Well – that whole system seems to be faltering in its own right. I mean, the stock market is not rational, that is pretty evident at the moment.

        You’re telling me you want me to forego part of my paycheck each month in favor of a tiny piece of ownership of a cross section of companies – which I can only claim the actual liquid value without strict penalty until after I’m 67 – and the value of which is highly dependent on the irrational fears and hopes of other people? and, if not that, upon how well that cross section of corporations extract wealth from the rest of the population? that that money is almost guaranteed to grow is part of the whole issue of the requirement of capitalism to achieve infinite growth year after year – and if it does grow? – where the hell does that money come from? Less and less from transformation of materials into value, and the exchange of that value for money. Less and less from the rendering of a service and the exchange of money for that service. More and more from the enclosure of resources (perhaps including the up front, one-time transformation of materials into those resources, and continued maintenance) and the extraction of rents for use (see: the current state of computing and data storage).

        There’ve got to be losers here. If my future wealth is going to be based on a bunch of economic losers having near nothing when they reach the same age, wtf is the point? what is the point if I have wealth and my neighbor has nothing.

        If my own future wealth is dependent on me owning a piece of an entity that pays a worker a fraction of the value of their labor – that makes its profit purely on that distinction – I think I probably ought to avoid that whole system altogether out of simple solidarity.

        Edit: this is a rant.

        Edit2: Oh yeah and thats all not to mention these companies I’d be vesting in are quickly destroying the global ecosystem

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          Thank you for your rant. I love a good rant.

          I would just add for anyone listening, that the stock market and 401Ks, it’s all just gambling. It’s literally gambling, and not much good comes from gambling even though a lot of people think it will. Gambling produces a few winners and a whole lot of losers.

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          Even worse they said to put it in a high yield savings account which hasn’t existed for decades