• Brave Little Hitachi Wand@feddit.uk
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    10 hours ago

    It’s just so simplistic and limiting for there to be words that treat attraction like a fixed trait. I’ve got to be straight, gay, bi, or some global descriptor for my own behaviour? That sucks.

    Like maybe I’m straight, but in a “knows when dudes are hot and comfortable at kink parties” way, you know? There’s no word that doesn’t lump me in with loads of people I have nothing in common with.

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      7 hours ago

      Like maybe I’m straight, but in a “knows when dudes are hot and comfortable at kink parties” way, you know

      I’m throwing you in the “fun people” pile, so there’s another label ;)