Damn. That’s true, especially considering I was really considering just ending it last October, waiting for HRT for so damn long.
I guess…I am doing better. We lived girlie. And we even have tits now 💜

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      Most trans people don’t feel like their gender changed, only their presentation and legal status did… This is an interesting perspective and you may consider yourself genderfluid.

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        Oh this is called making a joke, an attempt at humor not a request for diagnosis but thank you for supporting trans folks

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          Well, since most people I know IRL don’t know that “she used to be a man” is considered inaccurate or hurtful by many, I try to spread awareness… I was pretty sure you were aware but I can’t detect jokes very well so I figured it’s best to just make you feel affirmed and inform others.

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            Good looking out. I think the distinction that can be made here (that I believe you identified) is that I was putting this on myself and not bearing having it put upon me.

            to me the joke flowed better when mimicking the pattern of the meme vs trying to be accurate to reality though. I also wouldn’t randomly try to finger a girl in my past life!

            edit: on further reflection I think you were probably right to call this out, even though I was being toxic to myself any trans folks reading it, including me, can only benefit from reaffirming that who we are is intrinsic and not a surface level transformation so please take my ‘good looking out’ from the heart 💕 sorry for being prickly