So by the logic of “beauty standards”…I should starve myself, curl my hair, get a tan, cut off both my feet to lose height and then remove all of my ribs to get an hourglass figure? You know…can’t argue with that 🙃
Gladly…would
(except maybe the tan part, I really like being pale 😭)

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      As someone who is married to a plus-size lady, I can assure you that anyone judging you for that is not worth the time of day. Be comfortable with who you are, if you want to change yourself in any way then do it because you want to, not because of irrelevant dillweeds.

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        7 hours ago

        Can confirm ⬆️ Even more people prefer people that are comfortable with who they are, irrelevant of size ✌️

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      18 hours ago

      🫂

      Being plus-sized is not a flaw and I hate how badly society treats plus-sized people. That’s disgusting, the shame and fatphobia society directs against plus-sized people…it’s really extreme.

      You’re neither ugly nor disgusting. I see you and appreciate you. I hope you are well 🩷

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        7 hours ago

        Thank you. <3

        I feel a lot better when I am able to go to the gym regularly, but I haven’t been able to go in months because I just can’t afford it since I’m try to go back to school (college) and books are hella expensive.