• FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca
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    Conservatives are so hateful, I’ve actually heard them try to use as a gotcha “what if someone you hate is transgender, would you still affirm their gender identity?”

    Yes. Why wouldn’t I? Even people I hate get to identify as whatever gender they want. Why is that such a hard thing for them to wrap their heads around?

  • A404@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    I think we should give individuals the option to opt out of social services. They need to be allowed to make mistakes or else they will never learn

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      If I understand right, this was the original meaning of the term “outlaw”. You don’t abide by the law, but you’re also not protected by it.

      Someone stole your TV? Good luck getting it back!

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    It’s important to continue to want the best for even those who disagree with us on that matter, lest we become another one of them.

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    If everyone has their needs met, who will they be better than? They need a hierarchy. They’re already poor and powerless, so they have to lord it over the destitute.

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      1. They’d take everything you give them

      2. They’d insult you for being stupid enough to give shit away for nothing

      3. they’d fight and steal amongst themselves for whatever they can get from each other

      4. they’d do everything they can to stop you

      5. they’d complain and demonize you for stopping.

      but MAYBE the kids they have that you’re feeding will grow up to be slightly less shitty.

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      I want to believe. Deep down I’m scared that some people’s nastiness comes from having too many of their needs met too quickly. And it deprives them of ever developing any empathy for others whose needs are not met.

      • Zgierwoj@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        It’s just about the basic needs here. Its actively damaging to develop without those being met. And even if it does make a few more assholes, this is still the point - here are some stupid assholes that deserve to be given the guarantee of survival

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          This is what I don’t understand about anybody who disagrees with you. What is the point of the entire concept of society, of civilization, of government, of organizing people into any sort of group if not to raise the basic quality of living? If you don’t believe in the concept of a society, then fuck off and stop influencing and benefitting from the very thing that you’re trying to dismantle.

          Furthermore, not only is it the moral and ethical thing to do to take care of all of us, but it’s an investment that pays dividends because healthy and safe people become productive people who will in turn raise a generation of productive people and so on and so forth. So even if you’re a ghoul who lacks empathy and only looks at the bottom line, it still just makes sense to feed and educate and clothe and house the people. And even if you’re able to easily provide those basics for yourself and your family, that just means more expendable income to juice the economy when you buy the goods and services that you want instead of just spending it on needs.

          “Oh no, but then we’d get a ton of immigrants!” Okay? And what, we get a population boom of productive people just in time for boomers to retire and die? And that’s supposed to be bad? Kinda seems like an ideal solution.

          The only explanation that I can find is that these people are either too dumb to think that far ahead or they’re too cruel to want to end suffering for anybody that isn’t them. In both cases, I don’t know what the solution is, but they’re so plentiful that it’s hard to imagine a Star Trek utopian society ever coming to fruition. It’s hard to have hope for the future with so many bastards insisting that humanity has already peaked and we need to regress to improve.

          • naught@sh.itjust.works
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            you see the immigrants have scary values that differ from the nice white folk of america. they have a strong work ethic, prioritize family, speak english, and most importantly, have a slightly different skin tone which assaults the delicate anglo sensibilities upon which this great eugenicist experiment was founded

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          I really hope so, chief. That would feel like the Curb effect but for people on the spectrum of prosocial/antisocial.

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        That’s probably a factor. But we can deal with that in ways that don’t need their needs to be unfulfilled.

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    I think problem is with how basic is demand. Basic is food and nutrition? Fine, mushy food, tasteless but has all the proteins and carbs and vitamins should be available for free to everyone, but they must be Tasteless, textureless. No one should get tatsy FOOD.

    Shelter? Everyone must have comfy temperature place to sleep, but place to sleep, 2m x 0.5m x 0.5m should be made free for everyone. Maybe a 0.5m x 0.5m x 0.5m storage space for personal things.

    Healthcare should be available for everyone at all times. And it should be top tier and vast.

    Education should be available to everyone at all times.

    Prisons awaiting trials should be comfortable, but people condemned from the trial should be put to Labour.

    I think nothing else classifies as BASIC need. Taste is not a basic need. Entire house is not a BASIC need. Never give out cash to people in need.

    That’s my theory on finding balance between people unwilling to contribute to society because of benefits. And people doing terrible jobs because they don’t want to go hungry or need shelter or medical care. This way people are free to pursue ventures without the worry for BASIC needs.

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      Having your basic needs met for free doesn’t mean you can’t buy stuff. Having a comfy place to sleep 2m × 0.5m x 0.5m sure is better than not having any place to sleep at all. Especially when it’s winter and you’re likely to not survive the night.

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        I think that those who think that should be made to live by it. Not the same thing. You’re advocating tolerating intolerance and you can keep that nonsense.

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          My guy we are talking about basic needs to live. It’s not tolerating intolerance to make sure people don’t starve. No one is doing an ideology means-test at the food bank line to make sure you don’t have shitty tweets first, you know?

          And further, I also don’t think homophobes should experience homophobia nor racists racism, because that perpetuates the systems of homophobia and racism and hurt more than just assholes. It may be ironic when it happens but it’s not good. There are other ways of pushing back against intolerance than using that intolerance against them.

          Especially when there is enough for everyone, you can feed someone without endorsement.

    • MnemonicBump@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      Unless your way of changing things involves massive genocide, you’re going to have to get comfortable with wanting the basic needs met for the people you dislike.

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        The fuck are you talking about? I’m saying people who think that way should live that way also. When did everyone’s brain fail out of their ear here?

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          Yes, exactly. You believe that people who do not think that all people’s needs should be met should live without their basic needs met, right? That’s what you said? If not, you need to be more deliberate with your language. (Which, ironically, would put you in the category of people you are talking about).

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            Sigh.

            This is like being back at reddit. I’m just going to block you.