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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days ago

kink rule

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kink rule

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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days ago
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  • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Hahaha

    Haha

    Ha.

    Haaaa…

    Hmmm

    Oh no.

  • ObtuseDoorFrame@lemmy.zip
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    No fair, my trauma made me asexual.

    • FluorideMind@lemmy.world
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      Same… Except that one thing.

  • HEXN3T@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Yk this is about how C-PTSD went for me

  • tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip
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    Are they writing “Hump” in the 5th panel?

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPM
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      humor

  • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
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    Literaly why I’m a voraphile, not a joke.

    • AVincentInSpace@pawb.social
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      You are under zero pressure to answer this, and please just ignore me if this is a personal question, because I would never ask you to relive your trauma, but I have to say I’m curious.

      What real life event could possibly give you a fetish for being swallowed whole?

      (Also, always nice meeting a fellow voraephile! Are you more a fan of the cozy safe snuggled up in tummy kind or the digested and dead kind?)

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        I had someone explain it to me that it’s the warm cozy constricted thing that does it for them, but to me it seems wild to jump to getting eaten.

        If I tossed a heated blanket and weighted blanket on a vore enthusiast, would they feel cozy or horny? Both?

        • AVincentInSpace@pawb.social
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          I mean it’s a case by case basis, but me personally, I would feel cozy, but not horny. Sorry, but a pile of blankets can’t look me in the eyes as it licks its lips, or sensually wrap its tongue around me as it covers me in saliva, and feel its throat muscles squeeze me as I slide down. A pile of blankets wouldn’t be able to rub its belly and ask if I’m okay in there, and remind me how much it loves me as I drift off to sleep.

          Most importantly, though, everyone says they’ve been inside their significant others. I actually have – and I can thus say authoritatively that they are just as beautiful on the inside.

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        I was morbidly disturbed by…well, just thing getting eaten in Cartoons, until I got eaten in a dream.

        TL;DR I developed a fetish before I knew what sex was.

        (Also, I have gone softer I guess. But I need to be claimed and tasted at least, sometimes digested)

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    I’ve always wanted to know why I’m so into anal. Like what happened to me

    • WraithGear@lemmy.world
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      evolution having the pleasure nexus located within swinging distance of your back door

    • ForeverComical@lemmy.ca
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      Religious upbringing?

    • myyass@lemmy.world
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      Not wanting to get someone pregnant or want them to get birth control? oh wait. well there could be other reasons.

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    No, no, I’m definitely cis. Ignore the force-fem, pegging, and chastity kinks, those are definitely unrelated to any gender identity issues I’ve been repressing for most of my life.

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      If you also use Linux I have some news for you…

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        Gender is what operating system you use.

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        • SourGumGum@lemmy.world
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          What gender am I if I use templeos?

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            Is schizophrenic a gender?

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          Checks out. I use deb, and am cishet, have child, and a (shitty) greybeard.

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          I might be … I have no clue. All at once?

          I use windows just for work, I swear!

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            ah yes, the two genders : Arch femboy and Windows wageslave

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      I’m in this picture and I don’t like it…

  • maria ~@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    this has been a trend on 196.

    not every kink is related to trauma.

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      Oh, yeah defo. I can clearly see which kinks I’ve developed through trauma and which were just the blooming of my pervert mind

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      Sigmund Freud not impressed. (I really need to make reaction memes for this)

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    Ouch!

    (And not in a good way)

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    …I am in this picture and have been made strandely arouseed, or even strangely

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    The original says “humour”

    Some humors can be kinks too

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      Mostly blood

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        The only bleeding from a healthy body is menstruation and that’s not very sexy… Some excreted fluids are way more attractive but they’re not among the 4 classic humors…

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          Sometimes when any number of people are getting freaky they get knives out and make some superficial incisions because they think blood is hot (which is fair, it’s the hot and wet humor)

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    deleted by creator

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    Reminds me of the main character in the show Furious.

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